Please no more…for now at least!!!!

Just when I thought things were slowing down…or should I say the deaths in our community were stopping! A beautiful woman was lost. She lost her battle to Lou Gehrig’s disease. I know this is terminal but it wasn’t time yet. At least I didn’t think it was. I figured at least another 6-9 months. I can’t stand it.

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I’ve been threatening to become a Wal-mart greeter. I can laugh when I say it and make light of it but in reality it doesn’t sound half bad. I figure my heart won’t be broken nearly as easy or as often working in Wal-mart! Read hereabout this amazing woman. She LOVED chocolate! We used to joke about doing chocolate tube feedings some day. I think I will send a chocolate bouquet to her funeral rather than the standard funeral bouquet…

Celebrating our Independence…

The 4th of July was an amazing time when I was growing up. My siblings and mother and father would pile into the ole’ station wagon and go on a road trip to buy illegal fireworks every year. I even remember the year the police came and as a small child I thought they were arresting my dad…I think all they really did was take away all of the illegal contraband. Awesome memory!

Last night we attended an annual fireworks event in our little town that has been hosted by a local service station for 50 years. The service station is called M&M and the thing I love about this show is that it is held right next door to the station…the gas station. Of course my simple mind thinks…hmmm, fireworks and gas….maybe not a good combo but Adam assured me that it was perfectly safe. And truthfully the gentleman putting on the show do have it down to a science. It was fabulous to say the least!

In light of recent events in our community they held a free-will offerring bbq before the show and the turnout was awesome. They had huge speakers turned up and played patriotic music during the display. When the National Anthem played everyone watching stood and the men took their hats off~very moving.

At the conclusion of the display they announced the new name for the firework show: The Annual M&M Supply Dickie Parrish Fireworks Extravaganza. It will be held each year in honor of this young fireman we lost this past week.

Tonite Adam and I had our own little fireworks here at home. Nothing to get excited about for sure but we definitely upheld tradition. Since I can remember my firework of choice has been the hen. You know, the hen that shoots out sparks and then squeals like a pig at the end. The best!!! So, my amazing husband surprised me with three of my own little hens to light off tonite…plus some sparklers (what is the 4th without those!).

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Note how it says "emits flaming pellets"

Note how it says "emits flaming pellets"

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Note the flaming pellets

Note the flaming pellets

All in all, I am very thankful for our freedom. We should all be thankful for those in the military, past and present. Without them we could be in a situation similar to Iran, etc. I also must say as I go to bed this evening that I am glad that North Korea didn’t fire a missile at Hawaii today as apparently there was some concerns this could occur. Talk about crazy! What is up with them…aaccckkk!

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A very brief post as I have very little to say. I apologize (not really) if I offend anyone reading…

My opinion on this recent loss is that if one day we do decide to have a child…there is one less person now for me to have to explain”why that person is the way they are”.

Kind of like this guy (we believe it was a guy) that Adam photographed in Philly last year…

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The end.

“Kids Count!”

<p>Okay, trying to be a bit more positive today. So, here goes…</p>
<p>This past Saturday was our 4th annual “Kids Count!”. I developed this event and it has grown each year. It is a health and safety EXPO for kids of all ages and is well attended. I just have to post this picture! We’ve had McGruff here every year but NEVER has he been this talented!</p>
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July 1, 2009: A sad day

This week hasn’t been much better than last. Our poor community. So far this week we’ve had three new diagnoses of cancer. Our poor little town needs a break, that is for sure. Tecumseh is thankfully a close-knit community that takes care of its own, for which I am proud that I live here.

Today was a tough day. A wonderful young man was put to rest while his beautiful family stood near-by and well over 400 persons from the community watched. The church was so over-flowing that we had to sit in the Parrish hall and watch the service via video…and we arrived 35 minutes before the service was to start! The church is a mere four blocks away but we still were going to drive because we planned to attend the grave side service as well. We pulled out of our garage, drove through the alley and turned around and parked in front of the house…the cars were already lined up that far! This pays tribute to what an amazing man was lost!

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He was a volunteer fireman and therefore all you could see was firetrucks, ambulances, etc…cars went on FOREVER. He received his final page at the cemetery. There is something to be said about hearing dozens of pagers going off simultaneously for one “final” call to service for a young man. It was horrible and beautiful, however that makes sense. I pray for peace for his family as they begin to heal. Below is the poem they placed in his program…have a kleenex handy:

When tomorrow starts without me, and I’m not here to see, If the sun should rise and find your eyes, all filled with tears for me. I know how much you love me as much as I love you, and each time that you think of me I know you’ll miss me too; But when tomorrow starts without me please try to understand, that Jesus came and called my name, and took me by the hand. He said my place is ready in heaven far above, and that I have to leave behind all those I dearly love.

But as I turned to walk away a tear fell from my eye, for all life I’d always thought it wasn’t my time to die. I had so much to live for so much yet to do, it seemed almost impossible that I was leaving you.

I thought of all the yesterdays the good ones and the bad, I thought of all the love we shared, and all the fun we had.

If I could’ve stayed for just a little while, I’d say goodbye and kiss you and maybe see you smile.

But then I fully realize that this could never be, for emptiness and memories, would take place of me.

And when I thought of worldly things I might miss come tomorrow, I thought of you and when I did my heart was filled with sorrow.

But when I walked through heaven’s gate and felt so much at home, As God looked down and smiled at me from His great golden throne,

He said, “This is eternity, and all I’ve promised you. Today for life on earth is past, but here it starts anew.” “I promise no tomorrow, but today will always last, and since each day’s the same here there’s no longing for the past.”

So when tomorrow starts without me don’t think we’re far apart, for every time you think of me I’m right here in your heart.